Today...Stay Inspired

There are times and moments and people who will put their failures and fears on you. They may think it's to protect you from being disappointed. They may think you need to hear it. But that can't make you give up. No matter who it is. A conversation I recently had reminded me of this scene in pursuit of happyness...

You have control over your dreams...go get them. Period.

Sincerely,

@bestnewactress

Nobody Knows

"he put it on me. i put it on like there was nothing wrong. it didnt fit. it wasn't right. wasn't just the size. they say you know when you know. i dont know. i didnt feel the fairytale feeling. am i a stupid girl for even dreaming that i could."

~ Katy Perry

When I heard those first few lines of "Not Like The Movies" I literally had to stop myself from bursting into tears because...well...not only is it about having someone propose MARRIAGE to you who you know isn't the prince charming that you're waiting for but it's also telling the storyof the inevitability that you'll come face to face with someone who's willing to give you all the love you're searching for... but that you won't be able to convince yourself that your idea of fairytale love isn't out there waiting, long enough to let this person love you. But above all...those lines just reminded me that no one has any clue what love really...TRULY is. I mean if someone, somewhere sat down and decided to spend the rest of their life putting together a definition of love from every song, movie, book, etc...I'd go out on a limb and say they'd die with a failed mission. No one has a clue. We all try to define it. Box it. Stretch it to make it fit all kinds of mess, pain and circumstance. For some it's a feeling. For others its an action. For most it's where we first experience hurt. For many it's where we find ourselves over and over again hoping maybe this time...it works. One of my favorite quotes is found in the story of Anna Karenina (oddly about a woman having a scandelous affair):

"Just as there are as many minds as there are heads, so there are as many types of love as there are hearts."

...I've always read that quote and thought it was amazing and so very true...but how can there be a type of something we can't even define? And how can you ever know you've found it? It seems that's the reason most people remark on finding it once it's gone...equating it with something invisible...something that only loss can reveal. Well isn't that comforting? Ha. Love is risky. And stupid. And beautiful. And boundless. It's too big to be contained...maybe that's the reason no one can really tell when they've captured it.

check the full song here. it's amazing.

Sincerely,

@Bestnewactress

P.s- or are we just looking in all the wrong places?

hmmm....

Inspired by a tweet...

usually people's first choice when things aren't going their way...word, right?

Let's face it we're a generation of people who want what we want, when we want it and not a second later. We have phones that can do anything from the simplest math problem to helping us adopt a child from a foreign country in under ten minutes...so how could anyone expect us to be patient when it comes to what we want in other areas of our lives? Where is all this coming from...right?...that's what you're all thinking. Well, I can honestly say that I am highly impatient person when it comes to what I want out of life. I set deadlines and keep schedules...I hold myself responsible when things don't turn out the way "I've planned"...I am hard on myself to say the least. And let's face it...why would I not be? For as long as I can remember I've wanted to be a successful actress. I've dedicated most of my young life to learning as much as I can about it and immersing myself in everything about my craft...and it's only right that I see results when I want them, right? I laughed writing that. Because it's just so silly. The truth of the matter is...the world doesn't work around our plans for ourselves and it can be utterly FRUSTRATING! Some of us work, plan, take all our vitamins, dot all our "i"'s and cross all of our "t"'s but things are only going to happen when they're meant to happen. And then there's that ever daunting, looming possibility that we may never get what we think we should get...it's inevitable that some people will lose and some will win. After all, EVERYONE can't win...ask Lebron James...he knows. So there's a sense of entitlement that all of us "hard-workers" have...this idea that our work will 100% result in exactly what we've worked for. Our feeling is of course...I'll do this and I'll get that. We're taught and told that hard work pays off from a really young age...but everyday we see proof of otherwise...we see people who've done nothing (word to Jersey Shore, the Kardashians and George Bush) get ahead and live life both comfortably and ideally with no worries, issues or conflict. Of course there's no way of knowing if any of that is actually the case...but that's how it seems..does it not? Meanwhile, we all know people who've grustled (grind+hustle: a word I picked up from young kids in LA that I find HILARIOUS!) they're entire lives with very little to nothing to show for it...is that fair? Does the universe just have it out for them? Who knows. Well other than the man upstairs...we're all pretty lost as to what it all means...is it naive to think that my work will pay off in the way that I've always envisioned it happening...is it materialistic of me to work this hard only in order to someday never feel like I'm working because I'll always be doing what I love and having things to show for it? And, as one of my favorite people in the world tweeted today, am i ungrateful for wanting it all SO QUICK? There are no answers. And that's EXACTLY what makes it sexy, frustrating, dangerous, insane and wonderful to go full throttle after what you want in life. Because you just never know. Faith. Life.

I won't give up. Will you?

Sincerely,

@Bestnewactress

And hello to The Printed Blog...you guys are amazing.

Edge is Born!

So it's been a while since I've written a blog post and I am now happy to announce that Edge Magazine is here! We had a wonderful debut week and reached over 59 countries and over 5,000 viewers. The feedback was wonderful and everyone who was apart of the first issue had nothing but good to say about their experience with me and my partners, Camara and Ashley. It was a truly amazing and trying experience for all of us to start a business from scratch and then do all of our promotions, marketing and outreach to our features...but we all learned a lot and have become better businesswomen. We are now in the process of putting together a team of writers, PR people and sponsors to help take Edge to the next level. It's gearing up to be something with way more potential than we ever would have imagined.

We have now signed on to be apart of Los Angeles' iWalk for AIDS event on October 17th and will be interviewing AIDS victims and the family, friends and lovers of those who have lost their battle along the way. We are so excited to be giving back in some way and are elated to be walking as Team Edge Magazine, LLC. You can check out our official team page here: Support Edge Magazine's Walk and if you're an Angelino you can join our efforts and walk with us on October 17th or simply help us reach our fundraising goal from near or far. Making sure Edge is apart of the workings of the Los Angeles community means so much to me because I love to give back in more than a monetary way sometimes time and effort says so much more. It will be a wonderful experience for all.

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Sincerely,

@bestnewactress